Filipina dating and marriage
So don't blame or get angry at Daughter because they really don't have a choice.The mother and father will probably want assurances that you are aware that you will be taking away one of their main income resources and that you will be expected to replace that( this is quite normal).Here's my advice to keep peace in the family, like all things in the Philippines everything is negotiable even a loan to a family member offer a lesser amount one that you can live with because in the end this is not a loan that is ever going to be paid back.
One of the most common and lucrative scams you may come across in the Philippines is the medical emergency scam.The first thing she will do, is incest the man move to the Philippines to get him away from any family members so she can get total control of him and his assets.Once married and in control she will buy a large private multilevel home in a fenced in compound because she does not want to be seen or heard abusing her victim.Once she has your money you will never hear from her again. A girl will tell a man back in the states over the phone or online who is not aware of travel and visa limitations for Filipinos that she can come and visit you right away, and while your waiting go out and buy all the sexy nighties and other things you wish to see me in so I can make all your dreams come true.All you need to do is wire me the money so I can get a visa and plane ticket to be with you.
After the home is built for the parents she will focus her attention to building a retirement home in the Philippines for you This is a great scam because although it sounds totally legitimate, you need to keep in mind as a American citizen you cannot own property or have controlling rights to property in the Philippines so anything you have built with her is essentially going to be all her's once she dumps you.