Pros and cons of dating someone with kids Girl on girl babechat
It is what it is and if you like him, look at how tied down he is with his kids? These are all things that can determine whether or not it can work.. it is my birthday and he cant spend any time with me because he is busy with is girl. you are pretty much in the worst place in your life when there is someone else's child involved. Let me just say that I have soooo much respect for any man that faces up to his responsibilities. But they should also be realistic about the type of women they can now get with.Do they live with him, does he have an every other weekend schedule? but if you have plans to move when school is out, this may not be an option for him, so then it won't work. The trouble was my ex did tell me he wanted his kids to live with him, but it wasn’t ‘real’ until it happened and I just had to sit back and be 2nd best or get out.Speaking from experience, our twenties are the ideal time to go out and date, have fun and travel, do what we want to do without being tied down.A man with kids is definitely tied down, therefore, so are you if you are dating him.They no longer the hot guy that everyone wants to be with.
Men will make time for people and things they think is worth it and I learned that they simply don't think you're worth it.I do somewhat agree with what J said that low self esteem plays a big part and if your in that situation you maybe thinking I’m a strong woman, I don’t feel threatened by their prev’ relationship, I don’t have low self esteem, I just love him. Believe me now just take some time out – without him in your ear promising the world to make up for his **** and you’ll see things clearly.Also beware of the man who didn’t even commit Marriage to the mother of his kids – it screams bad judgement on his part. Di HE have such low self esteem that he couldn’t make proper arrangements or not have the guts to admit actually I still have feelings for her. If you still going to stick with Mr Dad know this; you’ll never come first no matter what **** he says, his time money and prob’ yours will be spent on the kids, you , not them will be made to feel like an outsider and you’ll have to make all the sacrifices.It wasn't until I had a child of my own in my thirties that I preffered to be with a man with children and a past. Bottom line, if you like someone, give them a chance, kids or without kids, otherwise you never know what may have been.. 😊 Well, however, there are all sorts of situations to do with a man with kids besides just age and wisdom. And until I lived with the guy and his kids I didn't know why - because I really like kids.Without past experiences, there are no learning experiences and a man without this may be as immature as a man in his early twenties when it comes to his own life. I am not saying to not give it a try because of age. But when you're living with someone else’s it's a whole different story.
Well let me tell you I WAS that woman – the one who thought ‘kids are lovely’ how bad can this be –WRONG.